You CAN Change II

Last Saturday, I posted the first half of a section out of the book, the Peace Makers by Ken Sande. Here is the second and final part. Again, I hope this helps you become more Christ-like and encourages you to go out and purchase the book.

Study. The bible frequently emphasizes the close connection between transformation thinking and growth in character (Rom. 8:6-8; 12:1-2:1 Cor. 2:9-16; Eph. 1:17-19; 4:22-2; Phil. 1:9-11; Col. 1:9-12). Wisdom, knowledge, and understanding—all involving our minds—are important prerequisites to spiritual fruitfulness. God does not mysteriously infuse our minds with these quandaries; rather, as we regularly and carefully study his Word, he helps us understand our principles and his way so that our minds are truly “made new” and we learn how to wlk in his ways.

Practice. As Paul warned the Philippians, we cannot change unless we put what we learn into practice (Phil. 4:9). In other letters he used athletic metaphors to teach that godly character qualities must be developed through disciplined practice in which we seek to overcome our weaknesses, master the proper techniques, and make a desired behavior natural and automatic (1 Cor. 9:24-27; Phil. 3:14; 2 Peter 1:4-8). As we have seen, conflict provides excellent opportunities for such practice. When an argument develops, give close attention to controlling your tongue. When your desires clash with another’s, recall Jesus’ example and willingly submit. Or, if you have been offended, ask God to help you resist resentment and forgive as he has forgiven you. With God’s help and faithful practice, you can develop a Christ- like character, which will demonstrate your repentance and enable you to enjoy the benefits of peace.